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Stop Symptoms Get To The Root


Iceberg showing healing is hidden in the root

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Do you feel frustrated because the same patterns keep recurring?



That’s because you’re attempting to solve a symptom not the problem.



When you do this, it’s analogous to putting a bandaid on the issue. Get it wet with the slightest bit of adversity and you’re back to square one.



Stop symptoms get to the root!



When solving problems, dig at the roots instead of just hacking at the leaves. Anthony J. D’Angelo

Tree with tangled roots and the essence of healing

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Difference Between Symptoms And Problems


Symptoms and problems are like chips and salsa. They go together but are completely different.



Symptoms are indicative a problem exists. It tends to be obvious and cannot be solved.



Problems are the root cause, what lies beneath, and need to be solved in order to eliminate the symptoms.



Think of an iceberg. On the surface, it can look ominous but is completely visible. Below the surface, the iceberg is not visible and can run quite deep. If you remove the tip of the iceberg, it will eventually grow back and resurface.



Are you feeling a bit confused? You’re not alone. Even some well-known professionals cannot differentiate between the two.



Grab some chips and salsa and keep reading!



Let’s Play a Game


Put the label Symptoms or Problems on top of each column and win…Clarity


Perfectionist

Feeling Not Enough

Attention Seeking

Feeling Unworthy

Staying in Bad Relationship

Fear of the Unknown

Not Fitting In

Feeling Different/ Lack of Belonging

Inferiority And Self-Doubt

Feeling Not Enough

Repeating Family Patterns

Feeling It's Not Available to You



Did you figure it out?



Answer - The left column contains symptoms while the right contains problems.



Now that you know the difference, it should be easy to resolve right?



Somewhat but the problems aren’t always easy to discover.



The power is in the question. You can’t solve a problem until you ask the right question.




Be in Pursuit of the Root


If you want to drill down you need to do a root cause analysis.



Put on your toddler hat and ask WHY 5x.



Each question builds on the preceding one.



By the time you have responded to Why 5, you’ve addressed the issues and have discovered the root cause.



Example Using the 5 Whys - Staying In An Unhealthy Relationship


Using the 5 whys to show how staying in an unhealthy relationship doesn't allow healing


In this example, now that you’ve discovered the main problem is attachment issues, you can drill down even further. Explore the main types of attachment and identify the typical symptoms.



Congratulations…Now Take Action



Now that you have identified the root cause, the actual problem needs to be resolved through targeted action steps.



Are you ready to get to the root👇




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